Bernadette Ruth Wilder
December 3, 1962 - November 12, 2024

Obituary: Bernadette Ruth Wilder (Felker) 
December 3, 1962 – November 12, 2024

Bernadette Wilder (née Felker) unexpectedly passed away November 9, 2024, at the age of 61. Bernadette, who was born on December 3, 1962, in Whitman, MA, lived many years in Halifax, Plympton and Middleboro, MA, before relocating to Wilmington, NC, where she resided at the time of her passing.

Bernadette, or Bern/Bernie to her family and friends, will be remembered as a  loving mother, daughter, sister, and aunt. She is survived by her children, John Wilder (Caroline) of Texas and Rebecca Wilder of Utah; her mother, Marie Felker, and her sister, Theresa Scott (Dave), both of Middleboro; as well as her nieces Jennifer (Kevin) of Maine, Kristin (Shane) of Maryland, and nephew David (Reagan) of Carver, along with many grandnieces and grandnephews. She was predeceased by her father, David Felker.

A memorial service will be held at a later date to honor Bernadette’s life and the many ways she touched the lives of others.

May she rest in peace.

Coastal Cremations 6 Jacksonville St., Wilmington NC 28403

910.392.6032


5 Comments

  • Chase Holman Posted November 18, 2024 10:45 pm

    So sorry for your loss

  • Christine (O’Shea Light Posted November 18, 2024 11:39 pm

    Condolences to Aunt Marie, Teri, John and Rebecca. I am so sorry for the loss of Bernadette. May you find peace with wonderful memories that you had with her. I am truly sorry 😢
    Love Christine and Paul

  • Paula Barry Posted November 19, 2024 3:02 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. We spent many basketball and volleyball games in the bleachers while the girls played. RIP Bernie

  • Herb Spafford Posted November 28, 2024 11:51 pm

    Rest in Peace Bernie

  • Russ Elliott Posted December 1, 2024 2:00 am

    So sorry to hear of Bernie’s passing. I only had the pleasure of knowing Bernie for a few short years but her friendship will be sadly missed. Becca and Marie please except my deepest condolences and may she rest in peace. Your friend Russell E


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