Dr. Robert “Bob” Mendelson passed away in his home on Carolina Beach, N.C., surrounded by family, on the morning of June 2nd, 2024. He is survived by his children, Margaret, Rachel, and Michael Mendelson, Ilsa Quintiere, son-in-law Phil Bloom and grandson Jackson Quintiere, as well as by the Pedraja family. Bob was predeceased by his beloved wife Tannya Ramos-Mendelson, who passed away in April 2020.
Bob was born March 12, 1940, in the Bronx, and spent most of his life living and working in Manhattan. He was a graduate of the City University of New York and received his Ph.D. from New York University. Bob was a former Marine and college professor and spent the majority of his career doing what he loved, in private practice, as a psychotherapist. Helping people be the best versions of themselves was his calling.
Bob had strong political views, and was a lifelong socialist and democrat— he loved to debate with his many close friends. His incredible kindness, generosity, sense of humor and love of family and friends will be sorely missed. He loved to sing and travel, had a profound curiosity, and was a great reader and writer. Bob had a nearly 40-year marriage to the love of his life, Tannya. Their relationship was something to behold.
Bob’s profound joy in living was felt by all. His family hopes he is dancing in heaven with Tannya.
He will be deeply missed
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Margaret, Rachel & Michael- I was saddened & sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. My life has been enriched by knowing him. Your dad was a very important friend in my dad’s life. The years of their friendship were only a few but very special. Your dad played a key part in getting my dad over the PhD finish line.
Bob was one of the nicest people I’ve ever known. He has been in my life for many decades and to say he will be greatly missed would be an understatement. My condolences to his family and all those who loved Bob.
Bob has been a dear friend to the Blake family for forty-four years. His impact on our lives is immeasurable. His compassion, keen intellect and zest for life made the world a more hopeful place. We will miss his on-going debates on issues plaguing humanity. Peace and Blessings to his family.
A true friend and listener. An asset in many lives
good friend and listener. True Asset in many of our lives
It has taken me some time to be able to even write this and I’m not sure I will ever be the same after losing Bob. We met through a mutual friend in 2007 and Bob saved my life while I was trying to save someone else. He was my hero, a genuine friend, a father figure and a life line to me. He was there for me when I had no one and I feel like one of the luckiest people in this world to have known him. I will always love and miss you Bob. Thank you for helping me and so many other people. I would not be the person I am today without you. My deepest condolences to your family and loved ones.
I can’t really say I miss you Bob, because you’re on my mind and in my heart often. The light in your eyes I first knew as a patient, then for the last 35 years as a friend, still shines for me and I’m sure for the so many people your, kind, generous, politically robust, soul healing self touched. Knowing you has enriched my life more than I can say…. and the idea that one day I might see you and Tanya dancing shines a light even there. Thank you, thank you.
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